Showing posts with label baby. Show all posts
Showing posts with label baby. Show all posts

Monday, March 03, 2014

feeding our families:: food for baby




I have been thinking a lot about how to feed this wee babe of mine lately. I felt uncertain about how to feed my other babies- opting to forgo the rice cereal, but not totally sure what to replace it with. My first babies ate a variety of fruits and veggies and bits of what we were eating, but I never felt really confident I was on the right path with the best foods to give my wee ones. One of my kiddos loved everything we gave him and my other really would have been happiest on a strict diet of bread and cookies! Later on, we discovered various food sensitivities and issues with food and gut health and I though back a lot to the early foods they had been eating, wondering if a more conscious, nourishing diet might have helped to avoid some of these issues. They hadn't been eating junk certainly, but I just had a feeling that we could have done better during those early months and years of feeding those little bellies.

So during this pregnancy I was just a wee bit preoccupied with thinking about nourishment and food. I didn't read a single book about pregnancy or birth this time around, but I did real lots about food! After our family's journey with the GAPS diet, and the healing we had with it, and with our focus still being on real, local, nourishing foods, I knew that was where we would start with this baby once she started joining us at the table. 

But after lots of reading I came to the conclusion that there is no one right way to feed a baby! Babies first food's around the world vary hugely (soups, seaweeds, fruit, fish, eggs, legumes, butter, grain porriges, all kinds of different veggies and meaty bits and bobs!) and reflect local traditions, climates and tastes. All sorts of different foods are good for babies! And yet I also knew from our time on GAPS that having a healthy gut is so integral to good health, and that some foods are especially good at promoting digestive health. Plus, it seems obvious that since these little people are growing so darned fast, they need lots of good nutrients to grow on! So I decided to focus on food that was easily digestible and as nutrient dense as possible.

Thankfully wee Willa is happy to eat it all! Her very first food was homemade chicken broth and she approved! Since then she has tried all sorts of things, but usually broth is a componant- since it is so good for the tummy and such an all-round healthy food. And it is such an easy transition food from breast milk for little taste buds- no new textures to adjust to right away! Now many (but not all) of  her meals start with bone broth -which the rest of the family is often eating as well- but with various veggies and/or meats mixed in and mashed up a bit with some healthy fats (coconut oil, butter ghee...) and a little probiotic food like whey from our homemade goat yogurt or some fermented veggies. So far some of her favorites are carrots, squash, leeks rutabagas, onions, meats- including liver (I wish the rest of us could learn to love it like she does!) fish, plain goat yogurt, avocado, banana, fresh carrot-celery juice, cooked apple (and gnawing on a raw one,) banana. She also adores our lacto-fermented pickles of all sorts- which is awesome as they are such a healthy probiotic food- and a great teething toy to boot! Lots of sources suggest egg yolk as a good first food, but they don't agree with Willa's tummy yet so we'll wait and try again later on those. 

I am finding now as I am offering her a greater variety of things that usually she can be eating from the foods we are eating and there is getting to be less prep work to feed her. I make a lot of soup for our family, so I can just scoop out some veggies or meat and some broth and then add in other ingredients for the rest of the family. If I am making something just for her I try to make extra and freeze small portions, but already I am needing to do this less and less. She will be eating most of what we are eating fairly soon I think, though we will hold off on any grains for awhile. She seems pretty happy and healthy, so, hopefully we are on the right track.

My favorite resource has been Super Nutrition for Babies which has lots of great information and some excellent recipes- lots of great grain-free ones that our whole family has enjoyed. There is a chapter on baby feeding in the GAPS book which I have kept an eye on too.  I also read French Kids Eat Everything when I was pregnanct and really enjoyed it (and it has finally helped me get my big boys to  stop snacking insistently and my picky eater to start eating more real food which is something to celebrate!) It isn't specifially about feeding babies, but I was insprired by the variety and approach to feeding little ones that she talked about. Along the same lines is this beautiful website by a french mama- she posts her baby's weekly menu too, which is fun to read and glean ideas from! I also read Real Food for Mother and Baby while I was pregnant and it laid things out in a way that helped me feel calm and sure that feeding and nourishing mamas and little people is totally doable.  

I am loving being part of the Feeding our Families discussion with other mama bloggers. Please check out the other posts, and join in on the comments too! 

 Feeding our Families


Melanie from Our Ash Grove

Jules from A Little Crafty Nest

Melody from Bespoke

Sarah from Our Island Home
Tonya from Joyful Living

Heather from Shivaya Naturals

Renee from Heirloom Seasons
http://heirloomseasons.blogspot.com


Friday, November 15, 2013

It seems winter has arrived. Up here in the mountains we have snow that seems to be staying. Down in the valley is comes and goes. The boys are thrilled. They could live out there in the white stuff, at least in November they could. They must have slid down the tiny hill behind our house a thousand times over the last week. Little northern boys.

 We've been out walking in the woods in the snow and it is lovely. Willa loves to gaze up at the trees and take it all in. The boys play long elaborate games in the woods. One day they were tigers. Today Ari was an arctic explorer and Dori was a pet monkey who liked to carry a giant (heavy) magic snowball around with him. We've been visiting our little creek, loving its beautiful burbling voice under the thin skin of ice. The littlest boy feels very brave to step over the rocks and cross it on his own.

 and inside, there has been lots of good stuff too-
art making,

 book reading (and Movember- oh my!)

  sweet sweet sweetness-
 learning,
 knitting!
 and creating. I'm in love with this homemade laptop (there are 9 other screen/ keyboard combos in his journal including a page of Mama, Papa and Willa on Skype!) This is e-mail. I love how kids that don't actually use the computers on their own yet, still pick up so much. Both boys spent so much time making and then playing with their computers.
 a finished quilt,
 
 and a really cute model,
 who took me totally surprise when I placed her on the quilt on her back facing the other direction and then turned around to make myself a cup of tea and put some dishes away and turned back around to find her here! Things are really going to have to change around here fast! Note the scissors and small bits of chokey paper everywhere. Not pictured- marbles in every corner, playmobile bits scattered hither and thither, glass jars on low shelves, crayons and pebble collections and treasured projects in every corner of the house. But look at her. Isn't she awesome?
 For Ari's grade two homeschool we have started a new Sage/trickster humanities unit and cultural block and are loving it. We are working with Harriet Tubman's story, and cultural studies around it- listening to African American music and learning dances in circle time, making a shadow puppet plays of the Brer rabbit stories, and really sinking into the story of Harriet's life over a few weeks. This has been both wonderful and difficult for me- her story is so heavy, but so inspiring, and it is not easy for me to bring the reality of such injustice as slavery to my little boy. Yet, I can feel it really touching him on a deep level and I trust the wisdom of the Enki philosophy. This is a good thing. Just for the joy of watching my boy make connections for himself- that verse we started in circle is actually about Harriet herself, and that song we heard Mavis Staples sing on our Cd is the same one Harriet herself sang, and she too ate food like we are cooking, and heard the same Brer Rabbit tales we heard- he is just thrilled to tie it all together. Walking this journey together is such a gift.
And Dori joins us for the parts that work for a 5 year old- the dances, the crafts- and I read the stories to Ari when Dori is listening to his quiet time story. He has his kindy stories that we read together that he loves. And Willa- she loves the dances most of all. We put her in the highchair and bop around the living room and she waves her arms and grins at us. Fun for all.


Friday, October 09, 2009

remembering

Looking through photos on Dori's first birthday, remembering his smallness and newness, marvelling at how he has grown and changed. I want to take a picture of him on the same quilt in a diaper to compare a year later- he certainly has chubbied up since then!

I think I will move into a photo-a-day format for a bit. I want to post here, but am still feeling a bit quiet. Maybe its the weather. Something about the riotous colour and golden light makes me a bit melancholic. Getting ready for hibernation I guess.

So I'll leave you with a some sweetness. He is still this sweet when he sleeps. When he's awake too, I might add.

Friday, June 26, 2009

good eats

I remember this stage with A. A few rice crisps can keep a baby entertained for a good while. I love watching those chubby little hands move with such careful intent. One by one they make it to that sweet mouth.


Monday, June 08, 2009

tree wishes

Planting a tree for Dorian. Ari has an apple tree, and Perry and I have our wedding apple. Now Dorian has a cherry tree for his very own. His placenta has been in the freezer all winter, making me smile when I'd come across the bucket from the hospital labelled "Dorian's placenta." Now it is in the ground to nourish this pretty little tree.
Welcome to the earth sweet baby. We feel so blessed to share this journey with you.

Friday, May 08, 2009

bedtime

A book before bed. Just me and the baby.

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

bread and yams

A day of painting eggs and making Ukrainian Easter bread at my mom's house. Both my brother and sister were home and we had some lovely family time. Ari was a little under the weather on Easter morning, but perked up later in the day and seems fine now. We did have to coax him into actually looking for the eggs at first though, so we knew he wasn't feeling very well. He got into it after awhile, and has since stashed all his Easter treats in secret locations. He has several caches of beloved objects around the house which we sometimes come upon when cleaning. The last one I found had a tin of marbles, a small (abandoned) wasps nest and some stickers. My boy the squirrel. I will dig the mama made objects out of hiding photograph them sometime when I get the chance.
Dorian got to taste some food for Easter and the Easter bunny brought him a new bib for the occasion. He seems to like the bib, but the food he's not so sure about.


He seems to enjoy the tactile experience of painting his yams onto his tray but he has to be reassured that I am not going to abandon him to solid food. He looks at me worriedly and seems to be wondering if this mush is all I'll be serving up for supper. But of course, there is mama's milk to spare. And I am secretly pleased he is not gobbling up the yams and avocados just yet. I wasn't quite ready for my baby to grow up that much.
All in all, a lovely little holiday around here, I hope yours was fine too.

ETA: I am still posting from the laptop and it is harder to gauge photo quality and brightness etc. my apologies if these pictures difficult to see.

Tuesday, February 03, 2009

love letter

Dear Dorian,
You are learning so much right now, it is beautiful to watch. You have just started rolling over and you think it is rather hilarious. You roll from front to back rather quickly, and then laugh at your new trick. Back to front is still a challenge, your little arm gets in the way, but you are working steadily at it.

You are also learning how to grab hold of things. You are only starting to reach, but if we place something in your range, you grab it tightly and work at getting it to your mouth. You are pretty easy going about it (about most everything, really!) happy to hold things, happy not to. You mostly love to just sit and take in the world, you love to watch us doing things, and your smiles and coos and recent happy squeals cheer us on.

You are working on your bottom teeth right now, and they are pretty uncomfortable for you. Even when you are miserable though, you will give us a grin. And still you don't really cry. You bemoan, certainly, lament in such an adorable sad way, but rarely cry. And when you do, we are there in a flash, since it is such an unfamiliar sound and we want to do whatever we can to make you feel good again. And oh your laugh! Is there any sound more joyous to a mama's ears than her baby laughing?
Oh, my sweet sweet baby, you are such a delight. Your presence is calming and lovely. You are such a joy. Thank you for choosing us, baby, we are so glad you are here.

Saturday, December 20, 2008

baby it's cold outside


Okay, this cold is getting old now. Sure it is nice to sit by the woodstove and knit, and heaven knows I have a pile of handmade items in need of finishing. But lordy, this cold! It had been over a week now with temperatures really is too cold to got outside- it is currently minus 30 and windy, a nasty combination. Our solstice sleigh ride we had scheduled for tomorrow is cancelled, as is our annual forest picnic. We are all getting a little snaky from being inside our house so much and our little town really has very few indoor options to be with kids. I'm afraid there is a little more grumpiness than festiveness right now as we try to occupy the active two-year-old indoors day after day. The baby refused to nap today too, making it hard to get much done.
Alright. There. I'm done my whining. Now let us focus on something small and sweet and delicious, shall we?

There. That's better.

Friday, December 12, 2008

full moon walk

Today the advent gnome told us we would be going for a moonlit walk after supper. Ari was thrilled, and we donned our snow gear, bundled the baby into the sling and headed out into the windy night. It is magic out there, the moon so big and bright, the snow lit up, the wind kicking up the powder into moonlit clouds. If it wasn't for the cold wind and the approaching bedtime we would have stayed out longer, but instead we trouped inside for PJ's and bedtime stories. Now both boys are asleep and the fire is crackling and Perry and I are bustling away on Christmas projects.


My parents had Ari for a few hours today and I got some time to coo at Dorian and take yet more photographs of him. He is wearing a pair of wool pants I made him from the sleeves of a wool sweater, they work well as a diaper cover and are pretty cute too. I'd like to make up more of these from the ever growing pile of thrifted sweaters in my studio. And did I mention I am madly in love with this baby? Because I am. He just melts my heart with his sweetness.


He laughed for the first time today. When I scooped him up out of the swing (which he likes an awful lot,) to get him dressed for our walk he just started chuckling. I'm not sure what was so funny, but I'll take any baby giggle I can get.

Sunday, November 30, 2008

one happy baby

And more photos of him than I could post. He keeps us smiling and cooing over here.

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

two weeks

This baby is pure sweetness. We are so in love. He is mellow and content and he fills up our home with baby love.
those little hands! Those little feet!And, though I know everyone says newborns don't smile, this one does. He gave me my first smile in response to my voice on day 4. Yup, it's true. A couple of blurry shots as proof.





















We're so glad you're here, our sweet smiling love.

ETA: Thanks so much for all the lovely comments on the past few posts- I appreciate all the warm words of welcome and congratulations. And yes, I will post a birth story one day soon, when I can spend a few moments gathering my thoughts. For now, quick shots of baby toes...